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What I Learned from My Recent Sex Orgy

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Agree to Agree to Disagree to Disagree

So yeah, what had happened was, this one orgy I was at last weekend got crazy. I love that my life can truly and honestly have sentences like that apply to it—yes!

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It got really wild. There were two dudes and four women—an amazing configuration for fun!

Two of the women were very queer, and it was super awesome to witness and connect to. Know this fact!

It was one of those lucky, fluke orgies that just happens outta nowhere, you know? (If you don’t know, I hope you learn soon one day!)

The thing is, not everyone was into everyone at the end of the day. But I didn’t let this bother me one bit. I just felt out what was right and exact, who and what fit where and when, and let natural chemistry do its wonderful thing!

And upon reflection in the shower a few days later (where I get most of my ideas for this blog, ha ha) I came up with an idea I’d like to share.

4 Kinds of Connection and Disconnection in the Circle of Love’s Life

1. Acceptable Agreement: you and someone are totally into everything they want to do, and you want to do it too, and you both let it happen!

2. Unacceptable Agreement: you are not so much into something, but you don’t mind it, and you will sacrifice for someone else’s pleasure.

3. Acceptable Disagreement: you are not into something at all, and you don’t like it, but you accept they can do it with someone else, though!

4. Unacceptable Disagreement : you are not into something at all, and you don’t like anyone doing it with you or with anyone you’re with. Sorry.

And it felt like this kinda covered almost every scenario of polyamory, orgiastic connection that could happen between various people!

I’m sure there are some kinds of interesting combinations of such complexity in sexuality, but this is for you to tell me about in the comments section!

I felt a strange amount of joy from this orgy, considering the more than usual amount of acceptable disagreement and unacceptable agreement that was happening. Not that they’re a problem really, but it’s best when things are clearly negotiated so that almost everyone is in acceptable agreement of everything happening in the orgy!

No matter, creative minds and intriguing bodies can manifest some marvelous things…

Trust me.

In love,
Addi Stewart

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