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How to Explore Your Bi-Side in Threesomes

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I’m not gay, but do I have secret crushes on other women? Hell, yes! Do I sometimes fantasize about bringing another woman into my bedroom with me and my boyfriend? I do! I don’t even consider myself bi-curious. I just think it’s very natural to want to explore sex with all kinds of other folks.

I have several guy friends who consider themselves straight but have had same-sex sexual encounters throughout their lives, some in MMF threesomes. If you do crave, lust for, or desire a threeway with another man and woman, here are tips

Tips to Explore Your Bi-Side in Threesomes

Watch Gay Porn

You might already enjoy gay porn, but if not, check out some guy-on-guy action or MMF threeways online. Take note of what really turns your crank. Is it the idea of getting sucked off? Being a top, or a bottom? Maybe it’s being tied up in some kind of kinky role play?

Join a Niche Dating Site

While it’s possible to meet couples on mainstream dating sites, it’s rare. Check out sites like FindaThreesome.com or CouplesDating.com where people looking for all types of group sex encounters is par for the course.

Be Bold and Message First

After you write a profile that is clear about what you are looking for, browse others and take the initiative when it comes to reaching out. It’s easier to take the risk of writing a first message to someone you’ve never met than propositioning a couple or single woman in a bar or club.

Express Desires and Limits

When you do find two sexy folks who are keen to meet up for a threesome, discuss your desires and expectations beforehand. When there’s more than two involved, you don’t want any weird surprises after you’re committed and naked! Sharing limits and boundaries will prevent many an uncomfortable threesome moment.

Come Prepared

Whether you’re hosting or meeting up at someone else’s place, make sure to have what’s important to you. Your checklist may include condoms, lube, your favorite sex toy, clean towels, and toiletries. Being safe and comfortable is important with new lovers.

Be Open and Adventurous

One of the great things about sex is that you rarely know how it’s going to go down, even if you’ve imagined it a thousand times. Maybe you thought you’d never let a man suck your cock, let alone enjoy the fuck out of it. But here you are. If that’s what happens, just enjoy.

Reflect and Review

This might be with your threesome lovers or in a quiet moment alone later. What was the best part of the your threesome? What could you do without next time? Will there be a next time? Do you want to try an orgy? Ask yourself questions that will help you evolve from the experience.

Have you explored your bi-side? Share in the comments!

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