There are a few different types of threesomes, and I love them all for different reasons. Of course, I have my own reasons why I prefer an FFM threesome over an MMF, but it’s more along the lines that I get to satisfy two pussies, not that I get two women to suck on my dick at once. I sincerely am not your typical individual.
One type of threesome that I’m not as much a fan of is the active-spectator type, which is rare but happens, so I’m going to talk about it.
I’m much more a fan of the freestyle-flow type of sexual scenario, where people do what the fuck they want to naturally do to each other—chemistry is a flowing, arousal is growing, and the action just pumps up until orgasmic explosion. No fuss, no muss, we both bust mo’ guts, and that’s how it is in the jizz bizz.
Sometimes, there’s a third party pulling Geppetto strings on things, and this changes up the whole shebang. What if someone is there in the threesome you’re having, and they’re saying “Yo, fuck faster! Flip her on her side, and stick it in her ass! Try reverse cowgirl…” External director threesome, how bow dat?
Can you play the dummy, the mannequin, the blow-up doll? It’s not for everyone, but maybe more for the submissive types who don’t mind being told what to put where. I’ve been in a few situations where someone thought their third-party input was invited to the party.
TRUST ME: MOST men WILL try to take more than they are supposed to in a porn-sex scenario, and it’s grotesqueness on display. DO NOT be THAT dude (or lady, women can be creepy and shitty and bossy too). But yes, when done properly and not with ill intention or power-tripping perversion, having a third party or external source suggesting things on the side can be cool—sexy or comedic or dramatic.
Giving up control—for someone else to make decisions—in a threesome can be interesting and wild, or it can be a super unappealing. Please be aware of that downside! Some dudes become douches, and you will just need to tune them out if they are given the chance to play good-time guide in a threesome. Women can also fuck things up by not taking it seriously enough, by laughing too much, being too controlling or not enough of something else.
Control is a delicate gift to give. Make sure whoever controls your threesome wants pleasure to be maximized for everyone, and that it’s not just some self-satisfied smug shit going down. I hope you have fun if you do give control over to some kinky Kubrick.
Action!
Addi Stewart
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