In your dreams, your dick is hard as a tree trunk when you picture two women at once. So what’s the deal with your prize asset letting you down when you need him most?
If you find yourself having trouble getting an erection, keeping an erection, or any other hard-penis woe during a threesome with Betty and Veronica, here’s how to deal.
How to Keep an Erection
Remember, you are man, not machine.
You might think that the extra stimulation would make you rock hard, but nerves, overstimulation, novelty, anxiety, and all kinds of other factors can make your cock react unpredictably during a threesome.
Performance anxiety increases with three.
Your fear of not having what it takes to service two bodacious babes is one reason why your trusty tool seems to have deflated when you want him most at your command.
The best way through most sex situations that might feel intimidating or overwhelming is a light attitude. Be realistic, and keep things fun. If you dwell on this, it will carry on and on.
Move on to acts that don’t involve your dick until it springs back to life—watching her masturbate, licking pussy, fingering one girl with each hand.
It’s probably not erectile dysfunction.
Erectile dysfunction is likely not the cause of your dick being down, or softer than you want, in this circumstance, unless you know you already have issues with your health or you also have problems with one-on-one lovers.
If it usually works just fine, don’t be surprised to find out that he’s nervous about his big day.
Try not to worry about it too much or you’ll spoil your chances of him springing to life in the nick of time, or make it happen next time you have a threeway because of your worry that it will.
Coming too fast is normal.
Coming too fast is normal with a new lover or two, in a super arousing scene or novel situation. Sure, it sucks when you’d like to last longer, but it’s natural to explode when you’re so overstimulated. You’ll get it to cooperate the next time the three of you get together.
Don’t make the mistake of pouting or wasting time feeling foolish. It’s okay to say “Oh, shit, I didn’t want that to happen so fast but you’re both so hot.” Then move on by going down, making out, and anything else your heart desires. Another erection is not far behind!
A dildo is your best friend.
A dildo is always the answer. You’ve only got one cock and there are two women if you’re having an FFM. Even one on one, a dildo allows versatility. Yes, it’s a girl’s best friend, but also man’s best friend.
You can let your dick rest if you’re too close to orgasm, or if he’s worn out. You can take the pressure off if he’s up and down like a yoyo. You don’t have to worry about not being able to satisfy her because you have a helping hand. Plus, watching the penetration will make him spring to life, believe me.
Want to completely change gears? Let her wear a strap-on and mount you from behind. This is perfect path for letting your dick take a break and for exploring your kinky side.
What’s your go-to solution when you can’t keep it up? Please share in the comments!
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