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How to Get a Harder Erection

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The last thing you want during a threesome is a wimpy hard-on, but unfortunately, your penis sometimes acts up when there’s too much going on—you’re nervous, under pressure, or anxious.

Try to take it with a grain of salt and have a good time. Being more relaxed will bring him back to life faster. Understand that women understand—just as you know she’s not always dripping wet, or has natural fluctuations of vaginal lubrication.

That said, there are lots of things you can do to make sure you put your best dick forward. If you want your cock to get harder, before your next threesome, here are a few ways to care for it so that it will.

How to Get a Harder Hard-On

Cut down on masturbation prior to your threesome date.

If your problem is that you explode before your two babes even have you unzipped, it’s a great idea to jack off before you arrive.

But if the problem is that your pecker is just plain exhausted, despite the bevy of delights on satin sheets before him, try cutting down on the solo explosions beforehand. Enjoy the anticipation of what’s to come in your mind, without orgasm.

Relax with laughter and foreplay.

Start things off in comfort and festivity without urgency. Give everyone time to enjoy themselves and get comfortable by relaxing together and starting things off with sensual foreplay. Don’t be in a rush to get naked. You want to build things up while you are relaxing, so that your body isn’t under pressure and has lots of stimulation at the same time.

Use a cock ring.

Cock rings are a simple, effective, cheap sex aid that come to the rescue when you want to get harder, last longer, feel more, look fuller, and service her deeper.

Lay off the booze.

Alcohol lowers your testosterone. While a drink can work wonders helping you relax, and makes a great social lubricant, less is more. Stick to an occasional drink. If you drink more than that during your threesome, your dick will be a lot softer than you want. But more important is the overall picture, so take a realistic look at how much booze you consume and cut way back.

Lay off the soy.

While I love hot and sour soup with silky tofu as much as the next person, if you are constantly ingesting tofu dogs, tofurky, beyond meat burgers, tofu nuggets, and soy milk, you’re overdoing it. Soy foods have a small estrogenic effect. Moderate quantities won’t affect you, but less is more here too.

Eat some steak, liver, fish, and oysters.

Your testosterone factory, muscles, skin, immune system, and organs need Vitamin A, Vitamin D, zinc, choline, B12, and many more important nutrients to function optimally. Some of these essential erection vitamins aren’t even available in plants, and some are, but their seafood or organ meat counterparts have tons more, and it’s much more bioavailable. If you start to eat liver twice a week—I know, yuck, but worth it—you’ll never need Viagra.

Quit smoking.

If you’re twenty-three and you smoke, you might not notice what’s happening to your lungs, skin, teeth, heart, and dick. Yet. If you’re thirty-five, you’re noticing but blaming it on something else. It’s never too late to give it up. You can do it, and your cock and I will thank you!

Do you have any tips to get harder and stay harder? Please share in the comments!

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