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Why You Need Lube for Threesome Fun

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There are a million sex toys and enhancers on the market. Thankfully, you don’t have to pick just one—but if you did, choose lube. Lube makes sex better.

And that also goes for solo sex—ditch the hand lotion, guys, and use something designed for your cock! It goes for men, women, transgender people, couples, throuples. and merry moresomes.

Here’s how lube can save a threesome, or inspire greater pleasures.

Need to find some threesome partners first? See our Guide to Threesome Dating Sites.

9 Reasons to Have a Lubed Threesome

1. Lube Keeps Her Wet

Women get wet to varying degrees, and her natural moisture depends on many things: arousal, age, hormone cycles, medications, diet, and more. We can be self-conscious if our body is not producing as much moisture as we need.

With lube, we don’t have to suffer but can enjoy sex the way we want it! Even if we have lots of personal lubricant, condoms can dry us out pretty quickly, or sometimes we want to have sex for a long time, but nature evaporates pretty fast. Lube fixes all these pesky problems.

Never overanalyze a woman’s wetness. While it’s an indicator of excitement, there are lots of things that interfere with that. Have an assortment of lubricant single-use packs or small bottles on hand for new partners or your lover’s favorite just for her.

2. Lube Is Key to Hot Strap-On Sex

The hottest part of a threesome for me is getting rammed by your girlfriend.

The materials in a dildo, or even a condom on a cock, can dry me out pretty fast, and lube makes it possible to enjoy a good long fuck with a strap-on or dildo.

Read: 7 Ways to Play with a Strap-On in Threesomes

3. Lube Invites Experimentation with Bigger Cocks

I love getting fucked with dildos of varying sizes, and in threesome sessions where two of you work on me or her, using lube allows us to accommodate big ones.

4. Lube for Solo Play, Together

Mutual masturbation is a great way for threesome lovers to show off their bodies or observe what works for each other. Lube is amazing for jerking off.

5. Lube Is Great for Finger Banging

With so many fingers and two or more pussies, keeping things juicy is essential in a threesome.

Read: Tips for Fingering in FFM Threesomes

6. Lube Helps Your Trans Lovers Feel more Comfortable

When making love with a transgender woman, keep her satisfied and comfortable with the slippery stuff.

7. Lube Makes Anal Sex Possible and Pleasurable

If you’re dying to get that dick into two asses, you’re going to need a whole lotta lube.

And when it’s my turn to say your butt is mine, I’ll slather the crack before opening your ass with my strap-on. And then I’ll slide and glide into nirvana.

In an MMF you might end up giving or receiving anal, and both of you guys will want to be wet.

Read: Guide to Guy-on-Guy Anal in MMF Threesomes

8. Lube Is Fun for Wet and Messy Kinks

If one or more is turned on by sploshing, water, or slipperiness, lube can add an element for them.

9. Lube Is Perfect for Sensation Play and Massage

A wet finger on a nipple is a lot different than a dry one. Rubbing titties against each other that are glistening with lube is a beautiful experience. Drizzling lube on toes or squishing against a slippery butt are fun and creative ways to explore and experiment.

What’s your fave use for lube in a threesome? Dare to share in the comments!

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