If it’s been a decade or many since you awaited your first kiss, you’ve probably been around the block a time or two.
If you’re enjoying regular sex, kinky adventures, and sexy threesomes, you might not give much thought to kissing.
But you should. Kissing is important.
Every lover needs to stop and check in once in a while and examine their kissing quotient!
We can all use an occasional refresher. Kissing counts—it leads to more love, to more satisfied lovers, and to the magic of sex, including threesomes.
6 Reasons Kissing is Important
1. Kissing is one way a woman assesses whether she wants to fuck you.
Did you know that many women make their decision about whether they want to have sex with you during kissing?
It’s not necessarily conscious. Even if she isn’t thinking, Okay, here goes, let’s see how he kisses, her body is pretty much thinking that!
Kissing is important because it’s how she receives information about you at the cellular level—there are hormones and other messengers in your saliva.
Ever wonder why a date who found you very attractive ended up cutting the night short after a few kisses? Could be the chemistry just wasn’t there—in the literal sense of the word.
2. Kissing increases a woman’s arousal.
Kissing can be a very persuasive form of seduction. You pass testosterone to her via your tongue and get her primed up and ready to go.
For some kissing tips, see HookupLand’s article, 4 Tips to Improve Your Kissing.
3. Slow and steady wins the race… and builds intimacy.
When women talk about kissing styles, every single woman across the board will talk about the unpleasant experience of a guy just diving in full throttle. “He went for my tonsils without prelude.” “He tried to devour me.” “I couldn’t breathe.”
Think of her mouth as a symbol of her pussy, and work her up the same way. You won’t just thrust in without priming her, turning her on first, and opening her up.
Start with soft, closed kisses, and as excitement increases, move towards open-mouth kissing and tongue.
4. Kissing is a symbol of the early attraction between couples.
The other complaint women have about kissing is that you stop kissing them once you’ve been together a long time.
Once you get to the point where you’re getting what you came for—sex—you might forget the fire starter that got you to that point.
A woman who is part of a couple or polycule will often remark, “He doesn’t kiss me like he used to.” Women miss making out like teenagers—one of the thrills of dating someone new. If you want to keep dating someone and keep her as horny and hot as she was in the beginning, make more time for kissing.
Read: 5 Things Women Want More Of in Bed
5. Kissing need not be a prelude to sex, but a daily connection.
Kissing her is a secret language that constantly reminds her (and you) of your affection, of what you do in bed, of your connection, and more. Kiss her hello and goodbye. Surprise her with kisses at different times of the day. Kiss her on different parts of her body—neck, forehead, hair, forearms, thighs.
6. Kissing with three or more is amazing.
Watching two women make out is almost as hot as watching them devour each other’s pussies. The sensuality and hunger is just gorgeous. Kissing for three at once is an amazing experience. It can be tricky to position but is worth experimenting to achieve. It bonds the three of you together and cements the erotic and intimate aspects of your experience.
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