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How to Avoid a Bad Online Dating Reputation

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After a hot threeway with a great couple you met online, you can’t wait to get together again.

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You call, you text, you message, but you never hear from them again. Worse, several local contacts you had in the works for other threesomes are now ignoring you too. What gives?

If you want to avoid a bad reputation in online dating, hookups, and threesomes, here are some dating behaviors you best avoid!

1. Be yourself.

Yes, everyone embellishes a bit, and we definitely tell our best truth and leave out the worst.

It’s okay to use your most flattering pictures, and it’s okay to pick and choose what you want to share about yourself. But if you’re fabricating everything to the point that you’re a fictional character, your dates are going to feel the fake.

“I’d rather go out with a hospital janitor than a janitor who says he’s a doctor,” says Alice, whose partner—a janitor!— feels the same way. “We aren’t interested in threesomes with people who aren’t comfortable with their own reality.”

2. Show, don’t tell.

“There’s nothing worse than hearing some guy I just met online bragging about all the hot blondes he’s banged two at a time,” says Candy. “We all know we’re here to meet threesomes, we’ve all had them.” It’s a big turn off, she says.

Candy doesn’t want to hear about your big dick or how you “can go all night,” either.

You might be tempted to brag about other things, like your car or your musician buddies or your salary, to land the leggy African queen you’ve been lusting after—but don’t. As Keesha says, “I freely admit I like the finer things in life, and I like to meet interesting, successful people like celebrities. But if you’ve got something to brag about, then stop talking and let me see it.”

3. Practice discretion.

We’re adults now. Discretion should be assumed, expected and assured. A couple shouldn’t have to spell out “promise not to tell.”

If you’ve gone and blabbed to the whole neighborhood about your hookups with so and so, they may well blab to the whole world wide web of three-way seekers that you can’t be trusted.

So don’t be that guy. It’s okay to tell a few close friends about the best moments of your life, but they don’t need to know the names and details.

4. Put safety first.

Never act in a way that makes other people feel wary or uncomfortable. No matter how horny you are, always prioritize safety. That means stopping everything if it turns out there aren’t any condoms left, and volunteering to head to the pharmacy.

If you get pissed off and evasive when the cute redhead you’re hoping to bed with your girlfriend starts asking about your STD history, she’s going to think you don’t value her right to prioritize her own health.

If a girl who wants to hook up for a threeway with you and your buddy from the boxing gym, both strangers, asks to meet at a hotel of her choice, not at her house or yours, respect the ways she wants to feel safe and protected.

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