How many times have you heard this cliché phrase when it comes to sex? “Men are visual creatures.” While that is true, the statement implies that women aren’t, and that is false.
There’s no doubt that men consume much more porn than women do, and more often. Women respond more often to context-driven material for erotic fantasy, such as romance novels, which can be mildly explicit or extremely graphic. You might say we like fantasy that is all about simmering, about “getting it on” than about “getting off” in a few minutes.
This doesn’t doesn’t mean that we never look at porn and don’t enjoy masturbating to it. We do. We’re such a large part of the market that smart producers are filming female friendly porn to get in on their cut. Still, most of us will grin and bear the stuff we find corny, crass, or unrealistic in our guys’ browsers just to see naked people.
What Most of Us Women Love Most about Porn
Naked Chicks
Yeah, strange, I know, same as you! Funny how that works, but the female body is a universal source of sex and beauty. I get incredibly aroused looking at pussy closeups. I feel hot and also emotional when it comes to the beauty of breasts. I get really turned on watching a naked woman getting penetrated.
I don’t just want the storyline or body silhouettes—I want porn that angles right in close so I can see the nuances of the her vaginal lips and her wetness on the cock going into her.
Threesome Fantasy
The number one complaint I hear from men who love threeways is that most girls aren’t into them. I am, but I’ll never try to talk a girl into group sex. Sex did, after all, evolve between two people and many women want to focus their emotions and bodies on one partner at a time.
That said, most women fantasize about threesomes. That doesn’t always, unfortunately for you, mean that she wants one in real life. She might just love the idea and find it hot in her mind and in porn. The fantasy is about being with other men, turning you on more, seeing naked women, and eating pussy.
Variety of Men and their Members
Whether a woman chooses an adventurous polyamorous life, or a lifelong adventure with one man, the IDEA of different bodies and experiencing different penises is an arousing one. Women are as curious as you are about how different genitalia and techniques would feel.
Porn gives us access to that. We love watching different guys and how they fuck, imagining it happening to us.
Horny Relief
I know, shocker, but sometimes we’re single and horny and need relief. We don’t always want the rigmarole of hooking up.
Oddly enough, I watch the most porn on days that start out with a couple orgasms. This weekend, I had a super hot Sunday morning threesome with two guys who I’ve been seeing. It turned me on so much that the afterglow sent surges of pleasure through me all day. A few times it was so overwhelming that I needed to release that energy.
No surprises there—like you, we watch porn when we’re horny!
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