When you fantasize about having a threesome with your neighbor and his wife, you probably imagine watching him give it to her good before taking your turn. Maybe you’ll be standing with your dick in her mouth while she takes it doggie style on the floor.
But what if she has something else in mind? What if she wants you to take it up the ass—or give it? Guy on guy?
Here’s what you need to know about man-to-man anal in an MMF threesome.
What to Know about Anal Sex in MMF Threesomes
Most MMF threesomes won’t be about male-to-male anal sex.
Most MMF threesomes won’t go there. The vast majority are about a man’s desire to see his wife or girlfriend getting fucked live, and joining in. Some do , thankfully, happen because of HER desire to have sex with another man or experience two men ravishing her at once.
See 5 Tips for Straight Men in MMF Threesomes.
Ask about expectations before the threesome, and put any boundaries in place.
Find out BEFORE the threesome unfolds what your partners see happening, hope for, and expect. And lay out your concerns, taboos, and desires as well.
This can all happen on a dating site when screening potential partners, to save your time as well as theirs.
Don’t automatically think NO WAY if your lovers are hoping for anal sex.
Just because man-to-man anal is not usually the motivation behind an MMF threesome, that doesn’t mean it will never come up. It can be a profoundly intimate and intense experience to share. Whether you’ve tried a thousand butt plugs, strap-ons, dicks, or you’re an ass virgin, anal play can be very pleasurable and exciting—for you and everyone else involved.
No one should consent to something that makes them uncomfortable, but many of our boundaries are knee-jerk reactions based on fear or misinformation. Read How to Get Comfortable with the MMF Threesome.
Consider her needs too.
Newsflash: Threesomes aren’t just about your fantasies and desires. They’re also about hers.
If the MMF is for her, not just for you, it might look a lot different when it plays out than what you have in your mind.
Some women want to see two guys getting it on. After all, she’s a visual creature too. She likes to watch. She likes to call the shots. Or maybe she just likes to turn the tables since the usual threesomes are about her with another female for your excitement.
Ass play and M4M anal sex can be kinky.
The couple you met online for a threesome might be into gender bending, role reversals, humiliation, bondage, or sissification. All of these and more can include anal penetration for guys, including receptive anal from one guy to another.
Anal sex feels great.
You don’t have to be a pain slut or a sissy boy to enjoy anal. All men have this body part, not just men who love men or men who are submissive. There are so many nerve endings in our butts! And men have even more, since the prostate is in there.
Anal play can include anal stimulation on the outside, finger penetration, small butt plugs, and strap-on penetration. It can also include anal penetration by another man’s penis.
Do it right and play safe.
For the best and safest experience, make sure you start small. Use a flared butt plug or fingers to get things going so that nothing gets sucked into your intestines! Use tons of lube and take it slow as your ass gets used to relaxing and taking it all in. Use condoms to protect the receiver from viruses and the giver from bacteria. Relax and enjoy!
Do you already enjoy anal sex in MMF threesomes? What tips would you add?
