If you’re lucky enough to have a regular threesome hookup arrangement, or a wife who loves inviting a third into your bed, you should have a toybox on hand with a few dildos.
In an FFM threeway, a dildo is a hot way to make sure both ladies can get fucked at the same time. It’s also super hot for your girl to use on her new girlfriend. If you’re like me, you love watching a woman penetrate herself, so make sure this option is handy! Finally, a dildo or strap-on is important in an FFM threesome if she wants to fuck your ass.
The variety of available dildos means there is all kinds of fun to be had, but it can be confusing when shopping. Use this handy dildo guide to sort out what’s out there and help you get the most bang for your buck.
Glass Dildos
Don’t be wary of the idea of glass anywhere near your ass or pussy. Quality glass dildos are not made like fragile wine glasses but of thick, shatterproof, medical-grade glass. They are break resistant and don’t splinter.
Glass dildos are hard which makes them easy to handle and insert, and they are nonporous which makes cleanup a snap. Glass dildos are the only kind that I offer my guests and the only ones that I’m willing to use at someone else’s house because there’s no ick factor about them being used before—after washing, they are good as new.
Glass dildos can be used in sensation play by warming them up or cooling them down in warm or ice water. Finally, they are beautiful sculptures, with a strong aesthetic appeal.
Note: stainless steel dildos have all of these same advantages.
Vibrating Dildos
The terms “vibrators” and “dildos” are often used interchangeably, but they’re not the same thing.
Some dildos vibrate, but not all vibrators are dildos. Some vibrating sex toys are not meant for vaginal or anal insertion at all, but just to stimulate the clitoris or nipples. These come in any shape.
The difference is simple—a dildo is a sex toy intended to be used for sexual penetration, and a vibrator provides vibrating stimulation and may or may not be for insertion.
Many women feel that vibrating dildos are the best sex toy option since they can get fucked and stimulate the vagina or clit with vibration.
Double Dildos
Double-sided dildos, or double headers, or double features are basically two dildos as one, made with the idea in mind of penetrating two bodies at the same time.
If the idea of two women writhing around with one dildo penetrating both of them, mashing their pussies together is as hot for you as it is for me, this is a must.
Silicone Dildos
Silicone dildos come in a vast array of sizes and shapes. If she wants something that looks and feels like a real cock, complete with veins and a bell head, there are countless options in all flesh tones known to humankind.
If she wants to be fucked with a toy that doesn’t replicate the human male penis, there are lots of fun and colorful options for playing with too.
Anal Dildos
Butt plugs are specially designed insertable sex toys that have a flared base to keep the dildo from getting sucked inside her ass—or yours. Always use toys designed for anal during ass play!
Dildos that have big balls can also be used safely for anal insertion.
Strap-On Dildos and Harnesses
It’s so hot to watch another woman fuck your girlfriend, or let them both take turns having their way with your ass. For pegging or girl-on-girl fucking, strap-on dildos and harnesses are the way to go.
A strap-on dildo is simply a dildo that can be used in a harness to strap on a cock. There are lots of styles and sizes to shop from, and it doesn’t hurt to have a few for her to experiment with!
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