If you are in an FFM threesome, you already know that you are with sexually adventurous women who are likely confident enough to masturbate in front of you. And that’s what it takes for a woman to play with herself in front of a man—confidence.
A confident woman is highly desirable and a sight to behold, especially if she is naked and getting herself off. One step higher might be two beautiful goddesses pleasing each other, with you on the sidelines watching.
While some men fantasize often about watching women masturbate, and spend a lot of time watching masturbation porn, they don’t always know exactly what to do besides basic ogling.
Here’s a few tips I’ve gathered from my own experiences, as well as through chats with female friends who are in open relationships and enjoy group sex encounters.
Tips for Watching Women Masturbate
Don’t Push Her
The perfect scenario is one in which a woman just does it, because she knows how much it will turn you on. But sometimes you will ask because it’s a fantasy for you. And it’s okay to ask, but if she says she’s not comfortable with doing that, move on to other sexy activities.
Don’t Direct
Masturbating is a very personal thing—no one knows quite how to please onself but oneself. Be grateful when a woman is willing to share this act in front of you, and be the right kind of audience who doesn’t tell her how to do what she already knows how to.
Pay Attention
Keeping a close eye on what’s going on shouldn’t be so hard, as it is a top fantasy for most men. But apart from taking in the riveting show, be sure to notice her particular techniques for making herself orgasm or almost come. Is she rubbing, squeezing, pulling, or pinching? Does she like using a vibrating dildo?
Join In
This might manifest itself with you touching her at the same time that she is touching herself. Or it might be a circle jerk, where all three of you are jerking yourselves off simultaneously. Mutual masturbation can be a high that can involve games of edging as foreplay.
Show Your Appreciation
Unless you are being dominated by two women who have restricted your conversation or put a ball gag in your mouth, you can express how turned on you are by what you’re watching. Tell her or them how excited you feel, or show them how hard you’re getting.
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