How to Make Your Bedroom Attractive to Women

There are two schools of thought about how to make your bedroom more appealing to women.

I used to live with a cat who peed everywhere and left litter scattered about the house. I was also negligent about dishes, laundry, and all sorts of things, yet certain women seemed to endure all of these disgusting inconveniences in order to make time with me.

One lover used to go on her tiptoes to the bathroom, picking her way through the litter, and never said a word about it. Perhaps this feeds into some kind of mom complex, or maybe they just found me charming as hell, despite the mess. Maybe it made them feel superior to hang out with someone who had lower standards.

I’ve also attracted women by being very clean and orderly. I tend to favor a lot of rich fabrics, reds, soft sheets, candles, low lighting. These are just my personal tastes, but it also strikes some women (they have told me) as being both relaxing and inviting, the sort of place they would like to hang out without much clothing on.

Despite what I said about the cat litter, the main thing you can do to attract women is to show that you have respect for yourself. Pick up your cloths, especially dirty clothes and towels. Put stuff away, and make your bed. The more you appear to give a shit about yourself, the more you will be putting forth the message that other people ought to give a shit about you.

Your bedroom ought to be a bit of a mystery. Don’t let a lady see it when she comes over the first time, maybe not even the second time. If it’s a one-night stand, then go in the bedroom. If it’s romance, keep it a mystery.

Let her wonder what your personal living quarters looks like. Leave the door open a crack the second time, but keep it dark. See if she tries to peer in there to see what it’s like. The more you deny someone access to something, the more they will wonder about it, be curious and eager to see it.

Last but not least, your house or apartment should feel like a safe and comfortable space to hang out. There should never be any expectation. There should never be any pressure to move things to the bedroom with any speed. I find that the more a person is comfortable knowing that they’re welcome to stay or to go at their leisure, the more they will feel relaxed and confident about the space and want to be there.

There are a million answers to this simple question, but I hope this gives you a few ideas!