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Common Penis Fears Men Have

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Some guys complain they don’t get threesomes because the women they’re dating aren’t interested in opening the door to more lovers. But some are held back from realizing their fantasies because of body issues and fears about their penis.

It can be nerve wracking to get busy with a new lover, as you wonder whether she’ll overlook or accept your perceived penis flaws. That anxiety doubles when you think about two women. What are the chances they’ll both be okay with your business? Will they make fun of you, or accept you? Will they notice at all?

An MMF threesome is even more intimidating. You forget that your fellow man has his own neuroses and insecurities, and only think about how he might be a better lover or have a mammoth organ.

Common Penis Fears, and What to Do about Them

Penis Size

Matters of size are guys’ number one penis concern.

Sure, some women are size queens and hope you’re packing a tree in your pant. But the truth is most don’t care, or care about other things a lot more.

Don’t let penis size issues keep you from enjoying a great sex life. Some guys have a big cock, and some don’t. The main thing is, your penis makes you and your partners feel good.

Most of you have a normal size penis!

If it’s really small—a micropenis—treat yourself with a dose of empathy. You can’t control what happened to your body in utero! You need love and sex as much as the next man.

Weird Colors and Patterns

Got a patterned prick? Strange colors? Hues that don’t match the rest of you?

Unless you’re seeing stars and stripes or polka dots, it’s normal. Genital pigment is often different than face and body coloring. It is often hyper-pigmented, mottled, or dark. The area around your anus, testicles, and cock have many variations of color.

Low Hanging Balls

Balls tighten up when cold or horny, but guys have testicular variations. Some are small and close to the body, some are loose, some are huge, and some are uneven. They’ll hang more as you age and lose some elasticity, but they all dangle differently naturally.

Mushroom or Arrow Head

Some penises have a head that is wider than the shaft, some are uniform with the rest of the joy stick, and some have tapered arrow heads that are smaller than the rest of it. All of these are normal.

Don’t waste time worrying about the desirability of your penis head shape. Some women have preferences for one or the other—most of us think all dicks are a bit funny looking, and appearance of their pussy lips, so much so that we sometimes get plastic surgery to alter them. You may have a preference but probably don’t care that much.

Skinny or Squat Shaft

I’ll say it again—dicks come in all shapes and sizes. It would be boring for women if every penis they came across looked the same. Most of us appreciate the variety.

Curvatures

If you’ve always been a little to the left or right, don’t sweat it.

If a banana dick is a new thing, however, you might have Peyronie’s disease or have a fracture (yes, you can break your dick.) A good rule of thumb is this: if it’s always been that way, it’s probably normal. Check out any changes with a doctor.

Is there something you deal with that we missed? Please share in the comments!

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