I’m not sure if it’s just the men I’m with, but they have all loved morning sex.
For years, I had an aversion to morning sex for many reasons. I often felt tired, unsexy, worried about bad breath and bright lights. Getting older and more confident, and less concerned with the small things that don’t really matter all helped when it came to getting it on in the morning.
If I’m with a lover and I’m feeling horny first thing in the morning, I now often make the first move. I can think of many reasons why morning sex outshines it’s late-night counterpart.
6 Reasons Morning Sex Rocks
1. It’s a great way to start the day.
Most of us like to have a shower in the morning to help wake us up, but the endorphins that become activated during sex can be another great charge to the system. So why not get down and dirty before you get clean. Or if you’re like me, you get turned on after a shower at the thought of sucking and licking and tasting your lovers’ bodies.
2. You get another shot.
When you’re with two women, especially in your first threesome, there are likely quite a few things you fantasized about doing. Often when it’s over, you reflect and think of ways you may have done things better or differently. The morning is your chance at a do-over for things that didn’t quite go according to plan.
3. Fast and furious sex is hot.
Do you have to catch the train downtown or a bus across the city for work. Don’t let a regular work-a-day routine get in the way of getting your early-morning rocks off. It can fun to see how quick you can make each other come, even if it means bringing out the bedside vibrator to quicken the pace.
4. You work up an appetite.
If you have the time to lay around and enjoy one another because it’s the weekend or you’re all on vacation at the moment, why not make it last. Long uninterrupted unrushed sex is so sumptuous, especially when you’re not tired after a long day. When all is said and done, you can cook up a delicious brunch for three or eat out at your favorite diner.
5. You make the most of your time together.
If your lovers stayed over last night for some good loving, why not do it all over again… because you don’t always know when your next intimate moment will come. Maybe they are only into casual sex and don’t want more than a one-off. Or maybe you’re all polyamorous, and not slated to see each other for a few weeks—make hay while the sun shines!
6. The morning can be more intimate.
If you are a lights-off kinda guy when it comes to sex, or your lovers feel shy to be fully exposed in the bright light of day, it’s time to take a risk. Revealing ourselves fully to our partners can deepen our relationships—it’s about being vulnerable and accepting each other, all of each other. It’s also a way to build your sexual confidence. You don’t have to be a naturalist to enjoy walking around in the nude, in front your partners.
7. Sober sex is memorable sex.
I won’t assume that you’re all out getting loaded or high before hooking up, but many people do like to imbibe or indulge beforehand, whether to ease nerves or heighten particular sensations. For some, even a couple of drinks can make things look a little fuzzy the next day. Clear-headed morning sex will always leave a better imprint, so here’s to it being worth remembering!
What’s your fave time to have sex? Please share in the comments!
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