One thing that turns most men on is the idea that women love their cum. In porn, you see streams for “creampies” or “facials.” Chicks drink it down, but in real life, most of us choose to spit, not swallow. In your dreams, we beg to bathe in your jiz. In real life, we might screech “Ewww!” if some touches us.
What gives? Do women get turned on by your cum, or not?
I thought I’d share what I think, and then check in with other women and record their thoughts on this sticky situation.
Sadly for you guys, I find the actual substance of cum a turn off. In theory, it’s hot, but in practice, it’s not. Seeing too much in porn or “on site” makes me respond with revulsion. I’m sorry. It’s degrading to men and hateful to shame them or act as if it’s gross, just like men who vilify women’s natural juices, so I am polite about it.
That all said, something changes in my body and mind either mid-cycle, or if I’m in love. When I’m most likely or willing to get knocked up, my body craves that juice! Take advantage of those opportunities and enjoy the moment in my mouth.
Becky, 27: “Neutral. It’s a normal and natural part of sex. I’m happy to indulge my partners in ways that are safe.”
Frederica, 23: “I don’t mind swallowing it to please my boyfriends.”
Angie, 39: “I’m poly and have two husbands. One has jiz that smells like bleach or cleaning fluid. The other has almost chunky junk like slightly rotten vegetables. I can’t say I love the stuff for its own sake, but I love my men and so occasionally good sex will mean coming into contact with it. Everything in moderation!”
Sophia, 25: “The thought of a man coming inside of me practically gets me off without touching anything! I imagine him fucking me AFTER he comes inside, so the first load surrounds his cock and gets all over me inside and out.
I wonder if this is so intense because it’s the ‘final frontier’ kind of thing—the thing I’ve never done. I’m polyamorous with many partners, so I have never had sex without a condom. I’m sure the desire and fantasy is so strong because this natural release has never been possible.”
Shanice, 31: “It doesn’t really do anything for me one way or another. I don’t mind occasionally swallowing or touching it since it’s important to my partners. It smells like oysters and pennies!”
Jade, 55: “I can’t get enough of it, and the man I share with two other women even complained he is not a cum factory! Maybe he has magic jiz with chemicals that turn women on? I don’t remember feeling this way about any other guy’s fuel.”
Lisa, 22: “It turns me on to watch my boyfriend explode all over my girlfriend. But I don’t want it anywhere near my nose or mouth. It smells sour and salty.”
Paula, 34: “The hottest sex I ever had was when I was trying to get pregnant and it was just a splooge bath every night. There’s no greater intimacy than a man coming inside a woman, it’s the final part of sex and the purpose for it. We are two couples who are totally monogamous between the four of us, so that we can safely enjoy all of sex. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
Tell us what you think