When Jeff, 37, found a cache of porn on his girlfriend’s browser history, he was excited by the kinky possibilities for discovery. The thrill quickly turned strange as he saw that her porn preference was far and away man on man, pornography designed for and by male homosexuals.
“I’d been hoping for some hot threesome videos or kinky threeway role plays—stuff that reflected the things we have explored together. I admit, I was thrown for a loop.”
Rest assured, women enjoying gay porn is extremely common. It shouldn’t be too surprising when you consider how much you love girl-on-girl porn.
3 Things to Learn by Watching Gay Porn with Her
1. Aesthetics Matter
My girlfriend Jill says she loves watching gay porn because beauty matters to her. She loves the grooming and attention to detail. “I don’t expect my man to look like a woman,” she explains, “but taking a lot of care in presentation of body hair, underwear choices, clean socks, sexy jeans, and shaving is a big turn on.”
She doesn’t expect you to be chiseled and smooth and pumped with a foot-long cock. “Porn is FANTASY, don’t forget. You aren’t expecting me to have zero stretch marks or cellulite either.”
2. Two Cocks Rock
Laurel writes, “The only place I’m going to see two cocks fencing each other, or a man with his dick in his hand and one in his ass is in gay porn. I’d LOVE to see this up close, by the way, but I’ve never managed to get an MMF threesome together where the men were willing to do each other instead of just doing me.”
So… consider whether you could explore the idea of sucking and fucking another man for her viewing pleasure. Many men only want FFM threesomes, or during an MMF expect to spit roast the woman or watch instead of playing with another male. If you’re willing to explore a woman’s man-on-man threesome fantasies, let her know by saying so on your online dating profile.
If you can’t go there yet, enjoy watching her fave gay videos with her, and see if you can warm up to the idea… or just enjoy it as a fantasy together.
3. She Wants to Fuck You
Here’s my main reason for enjoying gay porn in my line up: anal penetration.
I love watching women get fucked in the pussy and ass. I love watching a man’s beautiful cock penetrate her every which way. I’d love to do it myself if I had a dick, but instead use a strap-on or my hands and mouth whenever I’m with a woman. In some ways, it’s even more exciting to imagine being able to penetrate YOU.
I don’t want to pull out a dildo and fuck you anally every time, but it’s a pretty intense thought and women enjoy the idea because of its beauty and power. Some of us love watching your two most beautiful body parts—cock and ass—on screen for us at the same time.
If you have strap-on fantasies or enjoy being dominated by a woman and another man, consider giving her guy-on-guy anal fantasy a try. Gay porn is the only place she can indulge this particular desire on a regular basis, so if it’s something you’re up for, let her know!
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