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The Best Sex Toys for Women

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You might wonder why the two women you’re meeting later tonight need a doctor’s bag—after all, aren’t YOU their ultimate sex toy?

But toys are just that—toys, for fun. They not only add fun, but also novelty, pleasure, variety, and different sensations. And they aren’t just for couples, or for masturbating ladies, but for hot threesomes too.

Best Sex Toys for Women

The Dildo

It all starts and ends with the almighty dildo. A simple staple—something shaped to penetrate, in a safe material. There are fancy expensive dildos, elaborate ones with all kinds of bells and whistles. There are state of the art sleek affairs in the most luxurious, modern materials. There are antiques made of bone, and very basic cheap ones that do the trick just as well.

Taste varies, and colors and sizes range, but the good old fashioned dildo is absolutely essential for her—and for you.

In a threeway a dildo adds variety, lets her masturbate while her friend, lover, or metamour takes your cock doggy style. It’s great for a show. It’s great woman on woman while you rub yourself. And it’s great when your dick needs a breather.

Lube

Lube is not so much a sex toy as a sex aid, but I hate the word aid, and besides its utility and necessity, it makes sex a lot more fun for women.

Lube comes in all kinds of flavors and colors, or it can come in a medical tube. Some is silky, some is goopy, no matter—it supplements her natural juices to make sex more comfortable, for longer. Hormones, medications, diet, stress, menopause, condoms, penetrating objects, rayon panties, and a million other things can dry out her own lubrication.

You also need lube for anal no matter what, whether she’s the one taking it, or you from a strap-on dildo.

Not sure where to start? Walk into your local sex shop and ask for samples. I love to surprise my lovers with a basket of samples to test out together. My favorite so far—strawberry cheesecake!

Restraints

Essential toy boxes have some kind of restraint, even if it’s just a nice scarf or your tie. She doesn’t have to be super kinky to experience the thrill of a little light bondage- the element of surprise, a stronger orgasm, the feeling of taking power or giving it. If you’re with a really kinky couple, whether two women or a husband and wife team, elaborate rope tricks or a wide range of bondage restraints can be an amazing erotic experience to witness, or to be part of.

The Showerhead

The one sex toy every woman knows about but no one ever talks about is the detachable showerhead. When one has a variety of pulsing options, all the better. A forceful stream of warm water is not just cleansing before or after sex, but it can hit all the right spots and provide amazing orgasms. Women use the showerhead as a masturbation tool all the time, but a little wet and wild works wonders in a spicy threeway.

The Vibrating Egg

The vibrating egg one key to keep a woman screaming. I remember when these became all the rage, and they are still popular for a reason.

Vibrating toys increase circulation, feel amazing on breasts and other erotic spots, and can also be used on you. They can help her have a bigger orgasm, or keep attention on her clit so her hands can wander to her lovers’ bodies. Most vibrating toys have a variety of settings and some come with remote controls. They offer women preferences of subtle or strong vibrations, and the choice to start more quietly and finish with a bang.

What toys are top shelf with your lovers? Please share in the comments!

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