Is your lady satisfied in bed?
You might be begging her for hot threesome fantasies before you’ve got the basics down pat. Or maybe she loves sexy threesome adventures, but finds the experience lacking because she’s not getting what she craves.
Whether you’re a Don Juan in the boudoir or just trying to figure out how to please women, here’s some valuable information about what women want in bed.
What Women Want in Bed: More of This
1. Touching All Over
There’s nothing less erotic than the direct grope or lunge. In case you’ve been asleep for the past several years, “Grab her by the pussy,” is not hot, even if she’s consented to you ultimately going there.
There’s a lot more to a woman’s body than vagina. Don’t skip touching her face, neck, hair, arms, hands, legs, back and everything else—behind her ears, the curve of her waist.
“I love it when my man warms my body up first with his hands all over me. Strokes my hair, kisses my throat and my palms, massages me everywhere. By the time you get where you’re going, I’ll be begging for your touch instead of clamping my legs shut and shooing you away like a fly.”
2. Kissing
“I was sooooo attracted to the hottie that my girl crush brought home for a surprise threesome. He was ripped and funny and had a really big cock. But it was like kissing a lizard, and I wondered if he’d ever kissed a woman—it was so bad. Lisa and I started kissing slowly and took our time, hopefully showing him what to do, but he didn’t really learn from the pointers.”
It’s okay to brush up on your kissing skills from time to time. Sensual kissing that builds up in intensity is key.
3. Feeling Desired
“I want to feel wanted. Half of my arousal is YOU being aroused by me. If you only have eyes for the new girl, or treat me like I’m interchangeable with yesterday’s model, the sex is just not going to be all that great.”
Sexually adventurous women are well aware that you’re seeing a lot of ladies for casual encounters. But when you’re with her, don’t focus on someone else or refer to anonymous body parts. Make sure she feels that it is HER breasts and HER hair and HER moves that are taking you there. Otherwise, what’s the point?
4. Sharing Porn
Women enjoy porn and sharing the experience of getting excited together, or checking out interesting sex positions or exploring kinks. So communicate with her about sharing some hot videos.
But don’t just click on Pornhub mid thrust because you’re getting bored. How would it make you feel if a chick you were banging was all like, “Hmm, not really into you, let me watch this Brad-Pitt-Look-a-Like-Gets-Pegged video while you finish.”
5. Oral Satisfaction
One of the things women want in bed is more cunnilingus. But we hate asking for it. Most of us are simply going to feel unsatisfied, rather than ask you to do something you don’t want to do.
I think most guys who don’t deliver the tongue bath we crave are just unsure of how to do it right, like George Costanza confessing to Jerry that the he just doesn’t feel confident “below the equator.” But women interpret your reticence as if our vagina is undesirable or tastes bad. You might want to fix that. The results are well worth the practice!
Read: Perfect Pussy Licking Tips
Looking for more ways to make her swoon? See our article 6 Ways to Increase Her Sexual Arousal.
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