There is a massive marketplace of gimmicks, novelties, classics, and staples when it comes to sex toys for men.
It’s fun to experiment and play—that’s why we call them sex toys, am I right? When we’re in bed solo, with two or three, we want variety and discovery and fun.
But certain sex toys for men could be considered essentials.
5 Best Sex Toys for Men
1. The Cock Ring
This cheap and cheerful little doo-dad is so humble as to almost be mundane. But the cock ring is a sex toy for men that packs a powerful punch in utility, performance, and pleasure for you and your partners.
Wearing a cock ring keeps you harder, makes you look an inch bigger, and helps you last longer, which can be important when you have two babes to service! Even when playing with yourself only, your orgasm is more intense.
Why all men aren’t using cock rings all the time is beyond me.
2. Strokers
Whether it’s an all-out torso with a lifelike silicone vagina modelled after your favorite porn star, or a Fleshlight, or an unobtrusive variation like stretchy balls or other kinds of toys you just stick your dick in and stroke, the basic concept is the same—a tunnel of love that you use to stroke your cock.
Your hand is the most fundamental pussy simulator at your fingertips, but you can get a much fuller sensation with a standard stroking toy. Some guys don’t feel the need to use these men’s sex toys when with other lovers, as she has the real deal you are trying to simulate. But it can be playful to have a partner stroke it for you too.
3. The Butt Plug
The butt plug is a really important sex toy for men, making anal exploration safe, sanitary, and pain free. A finger against your butt hole feels good too, but why worry about germs and sharp nails?
You might be tempted to try inserting vegetables or a dildo, but don’t do that. A butt plug is designed with a flare specifically for safe anal play, and they come in teeny tiny sizes and big daddy sizes, so you can start small and see how things feel. A lot of folks, including me, feel like a small butt plug inserted heightens sensations on the front side as well. Partner play is fine if your lovers are into it, but a butt plug can be a private plaything too.
4. The Vibrator
No, vibrators aren’t just for women. You may not want a vibrating dildo sex toy, but there are numerous kinds of bullets, wands, discs, and other shaped electronics that vibrate on demand with a little battery assistance. These can increase blood flow to your nipples, balls, shaft, head, armpits, and even sore muscles if you’re looking for a more sensual massage and not just a buzz.
5. Restraints
Whether you prefer a rustic romp, hardcore kink, or a soft and sensual threesome, restraint for you or her or her is a classic for a reason. Holding back and giving up or taking erotic power is incredibly sexy and a big turn on for just about everyone, at least some of the time.
Bondage restraints also work perfectly for threesome role plays—cops and robbers, home invasion, naughty nurses—if that’s something you and your lovers want to experiment with.
Looking for more sex toy ideas? Read: My Top 5 Sex Toys for Threesomes
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